Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Lie. Lie. & Lie.

I am listening to Fly fm just now. The topic that Jules n Prem are discussing reaaaly caught my attention. What are the lies that men always tell?

This is the list of top 10 lies men always tell to their women according to the response of the listeners.

1- Sorry, my phone die la..
2- I forgot to tell u lah..btw, do I have to?
3- I went out with my men colleague for lunch..don’t worry lah..no girls
4- I silent my phone lah last night…xperasanlah your texts
5- I came home at 1 am..then I tido mati lah..
6- Yes I did went out with my ex-girl, but nothing happen la..
7- Sooooryy. I’ve got sumthing to do lah right now
8- I’ll call u back honey i promise

*this one I mmg PALING geram!! hehe *
9- I swear I don’t lie to you honey…*hahaha..a rhetoric way to cheat a girl*
10- I Love You,,,reaaaaalllly!

*ye ker?*

Suddenly, an anonymous listener calls in. This is what he said---
“I think women like men to tell lies lah

. It is because women cannot accept the truth

compared to men.. for example, my gf la. If she asked me “Sayang, I da gemuk ke?”. I have to answer it like this, even if she had put on 10 kgs, “No lah sayang, u look slim n gorgeous as usual”. I am sure that if I tell her the truth, that is she looks damn fat n definitely less gorgeous with that much of weight increase, she wud *sob sob* n merajuklah. Hahaahaha.”

Okay2, that anonymous caller seems to be quite bias to me. He’s so mean for saying that to the ladies! Hahaha. To be honest, I don’t mind my man telling me the truth

of my appearance, whether I have put on weight or not, whether I look not pretty for wearing striking pink t-shirt, etc. Not all women like their men to use their sweet like candy magical words

to melt their heart. I am sure that most women love their men to be honest

with them. To me, if you guys keep telling lies or the untruth to your women, where is the honesty of your relationship? You should be honest to your partner, try to avoid as much lies as possible (I know it is quite impossible not to lie, but try lah..hahaha), even if the truth is very hard to swallow.

Since I have the experience of 4 years long distance relationship, I usually know when my man lies. When his tone of voice suddenly becomes very convincing

, when he didn’t reply any of my texts or call n giving me lame excuses

, I’m sure something is going on. But surelah, sometimes, we can always put an eye closed, so that the petty2 things don’t get worse. I am hooked to a very unique guy, I don’t know if anyone can understand him except me. He of course, detested me when he discovered that I lied to him. And I would response, I am sorry..i try not to do it again. Hehehe. Hey. I didn’t lie okay about the part of “ I am sorry, I try not to repeat it again”

. I really mean it. It just that I come to a realization, that I am only human, n lying is a common mistake I made. I know he did the same too, so fair lah. Sometimes I accept the philosophy “Certain things are better left unsaid”. I know guys can be very “secretive” of their activity. I am not sure if “secretive”

is an appropriate word to describe of men’s nature to “not tell”

their women of that “insignificant” activities (that I’m sure that his girl would piss off after she discovered it..for instance going out lunch with another girl). Then they will say, “I didn’t lie, it just that I didn’t tell”

or “ala..xpenting pun..kene bagitau ke?”. Hehehe. So that’s it. I think both women n men lie to their partner, so it is fair. Lying is acceptable in the context of preserving the relationship

, etc but there is always a limit for it. It’s not that u can cheat your girl guys, by having scandal there n there, date different2 girls every weekend, that’s too much man! To my man, I love u

, u know I will always do, I am sorry for all the lies I used to tell, I forgive u for all the lies u told me (hehe), just keep this in your heart---I may tell u lies, but I never CHEAT on u..never! To all girls, juz bear with all of your man lies, since u all do lie too. =p

Monday, June 8, 2009

The Purple Wedding

29th & 30th MAY 2009. Finally, abg2 sepupu kesayangan aku da kawen! Sbnrnye cousin aku yg kawen ni adik beradik, tp adik beradik angkat la. Dorang ni dibesakan same2 oleh family si adik. Congratulation Abang Boy (Adik) & Baim (Abang)! Semoge korang dapat babies cepat2~ Hahahaha...

7th JUNE 2009. Ni part yg paling best sbb time ni aku ade. Cousin2 aku ni kawen dgn orang Terengganu. Tu yang mase dorang nikah aku x g tu. Jauh sangat2 la. Dorang xpelah dorang naik flight. Bakal2 pengantin mmg ngade2.Hehehe. 2 days before reception utk belah family aku, sume family aku da gather ramai2 kat Putrajaya umah auntie aku. Punyelah ramai, rumah auntie aku plak apartment je, so sangat2 lah crowded. Nak gerak pon susa. Aku dtg sehari sblm majlis resepsi tu sbb konon2 nk skip r buat kije. Bile aku sampai je, kan da kene ceramah free, pas2 kene settlekan 600 bunge2 telur yg still xdimasukkan telur. Adusss~ Susanye nk kawen ek. Mcm2 nak kene prepare. Kakak sepupu aku, adik pengantin lelaki lah kan, busy g sane g sini. Kesian jugak aku tgk die uruskan dewan, uruskan event, uruskan keluarge pengantin perempuan, etc. Tpi xpelah kak Girl ek, da selamat da Abg Boy N Baim kawen. Esok2 turn Kak Girl plak. Tp aku pon siap kene tempias sekali. Auntie2 aku sibuk la plak tanye aku ble nak kawen. Siap suh aku bwk calon berpotensi utk di intro kan. Hampesh betol! Aku bukan ape. Aku nk bagi laluan kat kakak2 n abg2 sepupu laen kawen dulu. Aku lgpon umor baru 19 thn kan. Mude lagi. Hehehehe. Okay2. Aku mcm da mls sket nk tulis panjang2 neh. Ni aku tunjuk sket2 gamba2 sekitar preparation majlis resepsi.

Bapak2 bersame anak2 bujang busy buat bunge rampai..

Hadziq dgn Yusri pure-pure tekun memotong pandan setelah camera dihalekan pade mereka

Bunge telur yang bukan aku buat

Tibe2,mlm tu Abg Boy dtg bawak kek. Aku ingat die mimpi ke ape sbb esok baru die sanding. Rupe-rupenye adik sepupu aku, si Shukri da turn 17. Terime kasihla ye pengantin, sbb belikan kek yg sedap tu, makin bertambah2 la lemak dlm bdn aku. Papepon, Happy Birthday Syukri! Kire double celebrationla nih. Sambil sambut birthday, sambil raikan pengantin2. =p

Syukri malu2 kucing bile nak tiup lilin kek..

Ni plak gamba2 on the day of the reception kat Putrajaya Community Hall Presint 9.. Mmg kecohlah kat Hall tu. Yelah, family besar aku datang dari kampong. So mmg style kamponglah. Ditambah pulak dgn mak cik2 aku mcm Mak Ju, Cik Ros, Mak Teh n cousin2 aku yg sememangnye kecos. Mmg syok! Kalo x, mesti boring je sbb banyak protokol. Mase dlm bilik persalinan kat hall sume org busy packing2 souvenir. Aku xbuatlah packing2 ni sbb aku ade tugas lagi penting. Tugas aku ialah make up kan flower girl & cousin2 pempuan. Bangge aku sume org aku make up kan wpon bukannye lawa sgt pn aku make up kan.Hahahaha.

"Ko lipat r tudung ko, susa la aku nak letak blusher cenggini" kate Aku kat Ekin sambil buat demo lipat tudung.

Aku n Ekin posing depan stage pelamin..jadiklah...wpon impian aku n Ekin xkesampaian nak duk atas pelamin tu..waaaa!

Aku ttp dgn kegemaran aku iaitu makan, wpon Mak Ngah aku pesan jgn mkn dulu takot belt dress aku xmuat pas makan..heheh

Aku dgn cousin2 yg serba purple dpn pintu masuk

Family belah mak aku orang Johor so kitorg decide nk buat adat Johorlah. Adelah silat, upacare minum air berkat,baling gule2 lah pastu ape lagi tah aku xtau name. Tapi part yg paling best, ade kutipan tol. Tol ni cenggini. Pengantin lelaki kene bagi duit kt sedare2 yg halang dorang sblm dorang dpt naik pelamin n sanding dgn wife dorang. Adik aku ni nakal sket, bole die mintak kat Abg Boy RM50. hahhaa. Nak tercekik Abg Boy aku. Yelah, yang tukang mintak tol tu bukan sorang, cousin2 aku punyelah ramai.Bole bankrupt Abg sepupu aku sblm dpt naik pelamin bersanding. Aku xdpt la duittol, sbb tugas aku ialah kidnap pengantin pempuan. Adoii..melepas aku nk mengepau.hahahaa

"Laki aku ni cukup ke x duit nak bayar tol ni" fikir Kak Sya dlm hati.

Aku kidnap Kak Yanie kejap sementare kutipan tol (Adat Johor) dilakukan~

Flower Girl dgn Kembar James Bond setie menanti pengantin

Aku dgn adik aku dukung Fasha Afrina & Deanna yg cute sangat2!

Aku berangan ade baby comel mcm Fasha Afrina~ Bile aku nak ade baby ni? hahaha

Family aku amek gamba dgn Abg Boy & Kak Sha..

Timmy yang mogok boring buat muke monyok..ala..cian die..

Family besar aku yg happening serbe purple...rindulah kat korang!

Majlis abes tepat kul 5. Mmg best la sbb dpt gather ramai2 dgn cousin. Peluang cenggini mmg jarang dapat. Mlm tu kitorg tgk balik video n gamba2 mmg gelak besar r. Abg Boy aku mmg sempoi r. Siap kipas diri sendiri sbb pengapit die hilang. Hahaha. Lepas ni turn sape lah pulak ek? =p