Something that make me smile :)

U will smile after u read this, i bet u. Because i did too. :) Somehow, women will always be women, full of emotions and concern. And it's vice versa with men's. That's y god created women n men needing and longing for each other. :)

* A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.
A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.

* A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.
A successful woman is one who can find such a man.

* To be happy with a man you must understand him a lot and love him a little.
To be happy with a woman you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.

* Married men live longer than single men.
But married men are a lot more willing to die.

* Any married man should forget his mistakes.
No sense two people remembering the same thing.

* Men wake up as good-looking as they went to bed.
Women somehow deteriorate during the night.

*A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.

A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change and she does.

* A woman has the last word in any argument.
Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.

Ladies are to be loved!

I am trying not to be bias. So here goes the facts about women that i must admit it's true. Hehe.

Women

1.The most important thing for a woman is financial security

2.Although this is so important, they still go out and buy expensive clothes and stuff

3.Although they always buy expensive clothes, they say they never have something to wear.

4.Although they never have something to wear, they always dress beautifully.

5.Although they always dress beautifully, their clothes are always just ‘an old rag’.

6.Although their clothes are always ‘just an old rag’, they still expect you to compliment them.

7. Although they expect you to compliment them, when you do, they don’t believe you.

Ok. I am a fair person, am i? :)

It's all about Men!

Hello Guys! I am in the mood of analyzing men characters today due to the confusion that engulf myself for these few days. So let's check this out together. I know these are almost precise n hampir terkene jantung2 lelaki semalaya. :) Nasiblah sape yg terase k?

Facts about Men

1.All men are extremely busy

--They are always busy kan? Xpenah la dgr kate dorang xbusy. Pempuan je xbusy.Kan?

2.Although they are so busy, they still have time for women.
--Ye ke ade mase? Ke time2 tertentu je ade mase?

3.Although they have time for women, they don’t really care for them

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--I am absolutely agree with this. I don't get it why. Pls explain to me!

4.Although they don’t really care for them, they always have one around

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--Guys, u are just too lucky for having someone who wud always be there for u even if u wud always never be there for her.

5.Although they always have one around them, they always try their luck with others.
--Oh maybe a girl can use the same excuse perhaps?

6.Although they try their luck with others, they get really pissed off if the first woman leaves them.
--See how it works?

7.Although the woman leaves them they still don’t learn from their mistakes and still try their luck with others

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--That happens a lot. :)

Whatever it is, i still believe that there are still plenty men who really care and appreciate their ladies (ayat rhetoric, cover!). Hahaha. Tata!

I want "my girl" back!

My bff once said that i do a lot of crying. Even though i am no sissies, i must admit that i do a lot of crying..lots of. Today, i woke up not feeling really well and i'm not feeling good. I sorta finding ways to cheer myself again, wishing that i could watch my favourite series "my girl". Unfortunately, when i started to browse for it in my private files, it was gone! And that tear my heart to pieces. And there i go again, frustrated n suddenly i felt that my eyes tingled and it rained again.....

I really reaaly want my girl back.please?

Clarification~

omg! my blog has create some sort of controversy recently. ok. let me clarify this.
what i've written inside my blog has nothing to do with ANYONE. it just that i wrote what i think generally and i have no slight intention of pointing it to anybody. i apology if any thing written here offend u. i'm sorry, but i must stress here that i am not pointing any of my writing to anyone. i believe that everybody has the right to express thought freely right? so, here i am writing my thought for STRANGERS to read. my blog is the place where i laugh and scream. please, if u cannot accept what i'm writing, then do not proceed reading it. I am only human, n i cannot pleased everyone. by the way, thanx for reading my thoughts here. i appreciate it. :)

Open Your Mind...Please?

"no one worth to judge u" i begin my today's entry with one of my favourite quotes. in life, i am sure everybody will come across with betrayal, hatred, envy and other negative feelings. it doesn't matter. it just a normal feeling that everybody will feel at least once in life. i bet u never feel it only ONCE. to be honest, sometimes i envy other people for their beauty, brain n etc. even if i feel envy or jealous of someone, it never crossed my mind to hurt other people by making bad stories up just to see the downfall of that certain people. Sometimes, i feel frustrated because some people are overreacting on some issues. yes. maybe that someone had once made a big mistake. but i still cannot understand why should this has-nothing-to-do with that problem must judge the once-made-a-mistake individual until she/he makes a totally wrong conclusion. aren't friends supposed to be supportive and understanding? so why should the incident of spreading bad stories about others, make other people hate certain individual happens? come on guys. we are all adults. i am sure that we are matured and not blind to see what is really happening. please don't act like 7-year-old child whenever u have with problem with certain individual, u tell others not to be friend with that certain individual. the problem lies between only u and that individual(or maybe sometime it has nothing to do with u, u are just overreacting or too busy body by thinking it IS your PROBLEM!), so don't u ever drag other people in. in fact, i am not into making enemies, i love friends, i don't hurt my friends, i appreciate my friends and i hope that this kind of thing will fade away. do remember, "hari ini anda mungkin mentertawakan kejatuhan orang lain, tetapi siapa tahu, mungkin esok giliran anda pula untuk merasai kejatuhan".

"Value someone with your heart, not with your mouth".

---pinkblusher----

Jiwa Seorang Putera Kecil

Hati menangis tatkala membaca sebuah jurnal tulisan seorang ayah tentang puteranya yang gigih berjuang untuk hidup. Hati kecilku cukup tersentuh, air mata berjujuran apabila menatap gambar-gambar titipan oleh si ayah untuk tatapan yang setia mengikuti perkembangan si anak. Jasad kecil yang penuh semangat kental, itulah yang ku boleh katakan tentang putera kecil ini. Walaupun hanya melihat dunia selama 8 bulan, namun sepanjang tempoh itu, dia telah membawa kegembiraan dan kasih sayang yang tidak terhingga kepada kedua ayahnda dan bondanya. Daku terfikir, alangkah bertuahnya diriku dikelilingi dengan orang-orang yang disayangi dalam keadaan yang sihat dan gembira. Tiada kata mampu ku luah sebaik membaca perjuangan yang dilalui oleh sepasang suami isteri bersama putera kecil mereka demi memegang amanah yang dianugerahkan Tuhan. Betapa jiwa kecil itu tabah menahan sakit setiap kali prosedur perubatan dilakukan terhadapnya. Apalah daya seorang bayi seusia dengannya menerima kesakitan yang tidak terhingga setiap kali jururawat menyedut mucus dari tekaknya. Ayahnda dan bonda putera ini menunjukkan ketabahan yang tinggi, dan tidak pernah bersikap negatif dalam menanti perkembangan putera kecil ini.Namun, sekuat manalah kudrat seorang manusia untuk melawan takdirNya. Allah telah mengurniakan putera ini secara sementara untuk membawa kebahagiaan dan memberi erti kesabaran serta kecintaan kepada semua. Pemergiaan putera kecil ini walau ditangisi, adalah kehendakNya. Semoga Amir Yusuf tenang menanti ayahnda dan bondanya disana. Alfatihah.

l.e.l.a.k.i

heart broken. dalam bahasa melayu hati hancurlah kan? in this entry, saye rase mcm nk melahirkan rase xpuas hati lah kepade insan yang bername lelaki. L.E.L.A.K.I. wahai lelaki-lelaki2..

-mengapelah anda semue suke menyakiti hati seorang wanita? tahukah anda bahawa wanita sangat2lah sensitif?

-tiadekah alasan yang lebih baik selain drp sibuk? abes tu, orang lain xsibukkah? orang lain tiada kerjakah?

-mengape perlu ucapkan sayang sekirenye anda xsayang? murah sangatkah perkataan sayang tu? perkataan sayang hanya sekadar untuk mengayat awek2 bagi tersangkut dlm perangkap anda kah?

-perlukah anda menunjukkan ego setiap kali berlaku perselisihan dengan pasangan anda? mengapa wanita sahaja selalu perlu mengalah? mengapa? jatuh standardkah sekiranya anda mengaku kesalahan anda pada wanita?

-mengapekah xreti memujuk setelah membuat seseorang wanita itu merajuk? xreti kah? jika tidak reti, bagaimana pula anda boleh mengayat awek anda semasa mula2 dulu? bukan itu satu persuasion juga kah?

-mengapa kejam sehingga membuat wanita menangis? adakah anda tahu, setiap titis air mata wanita itu ibarat setitis darah hasil torehan hati seorang wanita? alangkah kejamnya lelaki, hanya tahu menabur janji manis, jarang sekali dikotai. apabila diperlukan, baru wanita di cari, apabila xdiingini, dicampak merata-rata.

maaf saya pinta sekiranya entry kali ini menghentam lelaki habis-habisan. saya terluka kerana lelaki, rakan2 baik saya juga terluka kerana lelaki.penat saya melihat rakan2 menangis, mencari kesalahan sendiri setiap kali berlaku perselisihan dgn psgn masing2. ade juga yang ditinggal begitu shj tanpa khabar berita. adilkah semua ini bagi seorang wanita, yang sanggup berkorban segalanya demi kekasih hatinya? inikah balasan yang sepatutnya? aduhai lelaki...

losing myself...

why am i so lazy recently?
tomorrow, i have a bm test but stil i haven't touch anything yet..today, i didn't attend sports day.yesterday, i didn't go for class.okay maybe the yesterday event can be forgiven since i suffered from terrible period pain. oowh, maybe my laziness syndrome is driven by my pre-menstrual syndrome.is it?no no~ i think it just my excuses for my lazy behaviour. i think i have sort of losing my motivation. why? why do i change so drastically? i guess i know why. i know that i am facing the toughest stage in my life. i know life is hard this way. i know i need to be patient. i know that i can go through all these. all i need to do is be strong and never lose my faith. dear Allah, help me to go through all these. i don't want to lose anything that supposed to be mine. i don't want to let go my happiness. Dear Allah...please give me your guidance. i pray that i will not lost in His tests, n i want myself back.

he pissed me off!

yeah i'm back. i'm back with bad feeling------

i was and am hurt. that's it. that's the correct word of what i feel now.
seriously, i don't understand why some people like to condemn others? is it how they satisfy their dissatisfaction? well, if that's the way they do, it means that they're TERRIBLE!!

i couldn't express how bad i feel when sum1 that i trust stab me from behind. i'm feeling bad-----tooo bad!!! so u talk bad behind my back, even if it is your fault! hey dude, i don't think that u r that GREAT for sarcastically menacing me that way!!!
u better check urself up before judging others, by telling the world that i'm bad and u r good.seriously, i'm mad.

i dun even care what r u doing as long as u dun interfere with my life and messin' with me around.
don't u ever dare to ask me for help anymore. i'm not interested in dealing with insincere people. so go on dude. talk bad bout me until u r tired. as long as i know that i do nothing wrong, i don't give a damn of what r u saying.

thank you for causing me to lose my temper on this holy ramadhan.

life is not a bed of roses~

i am totally exhausted today. it is not because of the class hectic schedule, it is because of the unpleasant manner of some friends in my class. i am not the kind of person who likes to confront or make war with other people, i'm a type of "jaga hati member". so i would easily feel offended if one of my friends harshly saying some improper words or making annoying jokes to me. what happened to me today was, one of my coursemate annoyingly giving an order to everybody to buy a very thick but not-so-important literature book. i didn't have a problem with that until he started to gather all of us and started to scold us harshly, telling us that we weren't good in managing our allowances. and the worst thing was, he scolded and gave his so-terrible-and-nonsense "preaches" in front of miss z. (miss z is one of my respected lecturers). it really pissed me off!! i still couldn't figure it why he should interfere with other's financial management and tell what to-do and not-to-do to other people. i think he better take care of his own business rather than taking care of what other people are doing. all of my coursemates including that boy are matured enough to think properly what's best for ourselves. actually, for information literature is only minor course in my degree, so i will be using that book for one semester only. in long term run, the book may be useful, but due to money constraint (the lit book is totally expensive), many of us decided to photostate it or just borrow the book from the library. maybe he doesn't realize that not every student is fortunate to have financial support from their respected family like he does. so when it comes to have an option of buying, borrowing or photostating, most students who totally lean on the small amount of allowance would prefer not to buy.( there are still loads of important books to buy). the second nonsense thing happened to me today was one of the boy coursemate violently making improper jokes towards my friends and me. i am not going to state it here, it is to disgusting to do so.i'm hoping that if any man read my blog, pls, do respect your coursemates. do not make jokes on others' dignity, especially towards the ladies. u don't know what is it mean for a "bermaruah lady" like me to receive such humiliating jokes. not all ladies like to be teased that way n i'm sure if u learn social studies, u'll find yourselves violating the ladies' right by making indirect verbal sexual harrassment. i really hope that won't happen to my friends and me again, it is too hard to swallow. n i completely aware that he is the one who kept on making verbal sexual harrasment towards the other ladies coursemate. i think he has some broken fuse or wire inside his brain~