It's all about Men!

Hello Guys! I am in the mood of analyzing men characters today due to the confusion that engulf myself for these few days. So let's check this out together. I know these are almost precise n hampir terkene jantung2 lelaki semalaya. :) Nasiblah sape yg terase k?

Facts about Men

1.All men are extremely busy

--They are always busy kan? Xpenah la dgr kate dorang xbusy. Pempuan je xbusy.Kan?

2.Although they are so busy, they still have time for women.
--Ye ke ade mase? Ke time2 tertentu je ade mase?

3.Although they have time for women, they don’t really care for them

.
--I am absolutely agree with this. I don't get it why. Pls explain to me!

4.Although they don’t really care for them, they always have one around

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--Guys, u are just too lucky for having someone who wud always be there for u even if u wud always never be there for her.

5.Although they always have one around them, they always try their luck with others.
--Oh maybe a girl can use the same excuse perhaps?

6.Although they try their luck with others, they get really pissed off if the first woman leaves them.
--See how it works?

7.Although the woman leaves them they still don’t learn from their mistakes and still try their luck with others

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--That happens a lot. :)

Whatever it is, i still believe that there are still plenty men who really care and appreciate their ladies (ayat rhetoric, cover!). Hahaha. Tata!

I want "my girl" back!

My bff once said that i do a lot of crying. Even though i am no sissies, i must admit that i do a lot of crying..lots of. Today, i woke up not feeling really well and i'm not feeling good. I sorta finding ways to cheer myself again, wishing that i could watch my favourite series "my girl". Unfortunately, when i started to browse for it in my private files, it was gone! And that tear my heart to pieces. And there i go again, frustrated n suddenly i felt that my eyes tingled and it rained again.....

I really reaaly want my girl back.please?

Always be my baby

We were as one baby
for a moment in time
and it seemed everlasting
that you would always be mine
now you want to be free
so I'm letting you fly
cause i know in my heart baby
our love will never die,no!

You'll always be a part of me
i'm a part of you indefinitely
boy don't you know you can't escape me
ooh darling cause you'll always be my baby
and we'll linger on
time can't erase a feeling this strong
no way you're never gonna shake me
ooh darling cause you'll always be my baby

I ain't gonna cry no
and i won't beg you to stay
if you're determined to leave boy
i will not stand in your way
but inevitably you'll be back again
cause ya know in your heart babe
our love will never end no
you'll always be a part of me
i'm part of you indefinitely
boy don't you know you can't escape me
ooh darling cause you'll always be my baby
and we'll linger on
time can't erase a feeling this strong
no way you're never gonna shake me
ooh darlin cause you'll always be my baby

I know that you'll be back boy
when your days and your nights get a little bit colder
i know that,you'll be right back, baby
oh, baby believe me it's only a matter of time
of time

Lie. Lie. & Lie.

I am listening to Fly fm just now. The topic that Jules n Prem are discussing reaaaly caught my attention. What are the lies that men always tell?

This is the list of top 10 lies men always tell to their women according to the response of the listeners.

1- Sorry, my phone die la..
2- I forgot to tell u lah..btw, do I have to?
3- I went out with my men colleague for lunch..don’t worry lah..no girls
4- I silent my phone lah last night…xperasanlah your texts
5- I came home at 1 am..then I tido mati lah..
6- Yes I did went out with my ex-girl, but nothing happen la..
7- Sooooryy. I’ve got sumthing to do lah right now
8- I’ll call u back honey i promise

*this one I mmg PALING geram!! hehe *
9- I swear I don’t lie to you honey…*hahaha..a rhetoric way to cheat a girl*
10- I Love You,,,reaaaaalllly!

*ye ker?*

Suddenly, an anonymous listener calls in. This is what he said---
“I think women like men to tell lies lah

. It is because women cannot accept the truth

compared to men.. for example, my gf la. If she asked me “Sayang, I da gemuk ke?”. I have to answer it like this, even if she had put on 10 kgs, “No lah sayang, u look slim n gorgeous as usual”. I am sure that if I tell her the truth, that is she looks damn fat n definitely less gorgeous with that much of weight increase, she wud *sob sob* n merajuklah. Hahaahaha.”

Okay2, that anonymous caller seems to be quite bias to me. He’s so mean for saying that to the ladies! Hahaha. To be honest, I don’t mind my man telling me the truth

of my appearance, whether I have put on weight or not, whether I look not pretty for wearing striking pink t-shirt, etc. Not all women like their men to use their sweet like candy magical words

to melt their heart. I am sure that most women love their men to be honest

with them. To me, if you guys keep telling lies or the untruth to your women, where is the honesty of your relationship? You should be honest to your partner, try to avoid as much lies as possible (I know it is quite impossible not to lie, but try lah..hahaha), even if the truth is very hard to swallow.

Since I have the experience of 4 years long distance relationship, I usually know when my man lies. When his tone of voice suddenly becomes very convincing

, when he didn’t reply any of my texts or call n giving me lame excuses

, I’m sure something is going on. But surelah, sometimes, we can always put an eye closed, so that the petty2 things don’t get worse. I am hooked to a very unique guy, I don’t know if anyone can understand him except me. He of course, detested me when he discovered that I lied to him. And I would response, I am sorry..i try not to do it again. Hehehe. Hey. I didn’t lie okay about the part of “ I am sorry, I try not to repeat it again”

. I really mean it. It just that I come to a realization, that I am only human, n lying is a common mistake I made. I know he did the same too, so fair lah. Sometimes I accept the philosophy “Certain things are better left unsaid”. I know guys can be very “secretive” of their activity. I am not sure if “secretive”

is an appropriate word to describe of men’s nature to “not tell”

their women of that “insignificant” activities (that I’m sure that his girl would piss off after she discovered it..for instance going out lunch with another girl). Then they will say, “I didn’t lie, it just that I didn’t tell”

or “ala..xpenting pun..kene bagitau ke?”. Hehehe. So that’s it. I think both women n men lie to their partner, so it is fair. Lying is acceptable in the context of preserving the relationship

, etc but there is always a limit for it. It’s not that u can cheat your girl guys, by having scandal there n there, date different2 girls every weekend, that’s too much man! To my man, I love u

, u know I will always do, I am sorry for all the lies I used to tell, I forgive u for all the lies u told me (hehe), just keep this in your heart---I may tell u lies, but I never CHEAT on u..never! To all girls, juz bear with all of your man lies, since u all do lie too. =p

The Purple Wedding

29th & 30th MAY 2009. Finally, abg2 sepupu kesayangan aku da kawen! Sbnrnye cousin aku yg kawen ni adik beradik, tp adik beradik angkat la. Dorang ni dibesakan same2 oleh family si adik. Congratulation Abang Boy (Adik) & Baim (Abang)! Semoge korang dapat babies cepat2~ Hahahaha...

7th JUNE 2009. Ni part yg paling best sbb time ni aku ade. Cousin2 aku ni kawen dgn orang Terengganu. Tu yang mase dorang nikah aku x g tu. Jauh sangat2 la. Dorang xpelah dorang naik flight. Bakal2 pengantin mmg ngade2.Hehehe. 2 days before reception utk belah family aku, sume family aku da gather ramai2 kat Putrajaya umah auntie aku. Punyelah ramai, rumah auntie aku plak apartment je, so sangat2 lah crowded. Nak gerak pon susa. Aku dtg sehari sblm majlis resepsi tu sbb konon2 nk skip r buat kije. Bile aku sampai je, kan da kene ceramah free, pas2 kene settlekan 600 bunge2 telur yg still xdimasukkan telur. Adusss~ Susanye nk kawen ek. Mcm2 nak kene prepare. Kakak sepupu aku, adik pengantin lelaki lah kan, busy g sane g sini. Kesian jugak aku tgk die uruskan dewan, uruskan event, uruskan keluarge pengantin perempuan, etc. Tpi xpelah kak Girl ek, da selamat da Abg Boy N Baim kawen. Esok2 turn Kak Girl plak. Tp aku pon siap kene tempias sekali. Auntie2 aku sibuk la plak tanye aku ble nak kawen. Siap suh aku bwk calon berpotensi utk di intro kan. Hampesh betol! Aku bukan ape. Aku nk bagi laluan kat kakak2 n abg2 sepupu laen kawen dulu. Aku lgpon umor baru 19 thn kan. Mude lagi. Hehehehe. Okay2. Aku mcm da mls sket nk tulis panjang2 neh. Ni aku tunjuk sket2 gamba2 sekitar preparation majlis resepsi.

Bapak2 bersame anak2 bujang busy buat bunge rampai..

Hadziq dgn Yusri pure-pure tekun memotong pandan setelah camera dihalekan pade mereka

Bunge telur yang bukan aku buat

Tibe2,mlm tu Abg Boy dtg bawak kek. Aku ingat die mimpi ke ape sbb esok baru die sanding. Rupe-rupenye adik sepupu aku, si Shukri da turn 17. Terime kasihla ye pengantin, sbb belikan kek yg sedap tu, makin bertambah2 la lemak dlm bdn aku. Papepon, Happy Birthday Syukri! Kire double celebrationla nih. Sambil sambut birthday, sambil raikan pengantin2. =p

Syukri malu2 kucing bile nak tiup lilin kek..

Ni plak gamba2 on the day of the reception kat Putrajaya Community Hall Presint 9.. Mmg kecohlah kat Hall tu. Yelah, family besar aku datang dari kampong. So mmg style kamponglah. Ditambah pulak dgn mak cik2 aku mcm Mak Ju, Cik Ros, Mak Teh n cousin2 aku yg sememangnye kecos. Mmg syok! Kalo x, mesti boring je sbb banyak protokol. Mase dlm bilik persalinan kat hall sume org busy packing2 souvenir. Aku xbuatlah packing2 ni sbb aku ade tugas lagi penting. Tugas aku ialah make up kan flower girl & cousin2 pempuan. Bangge aku sume org aku make up kan wpon bukannye lawa sgt pn aku make up kan.Hahahaha.

"Ko lipat r tudung ko, susa la aku nak letak blusher cenggini" kate Aku kat Ekin sambil buat demo lipat tudung.

Aku n Ekin posing depan stage pelamin..jadiklah...wpon impian aku n Ekin xkesampaian nak duk atas pelamin tu..waaaa!

Aku ttp dgn kegemaran aku iaitu makan, wpon Mak Ngah aku pesan jgn mkn dulu takot belt dress aku xmuat pas makan..heheh

Aku dgn cousin2 yg serba purple dpn pintu masuk

Family belah mak aku orang Johor so kitorg decide nk buat adat Johorlah. Adelah silat, upacare minum air berkat,baling gule2 lah pastu ape lagi tah aku xtau name. Tapi part yg paling best, ade kutipan tol. Tol ni cenggini. Pengantin lelaki kene bagi duit kt sedare2 yg halang dorang sblm dorang dpt naik pelamin n sanding dgn wife dorang. Adik aku ni nakal sket, bole die mintak kat Abg Boy RM50. hahhaa. Nak tercekik Abg Boy aku. Yelah, yang tukang mintak tol tu bukan sorang, cousin2 aku punyelah ramai.Bole bankrupt Abg sepupu aku sblm dpt naik pelamin bersanding. Aku xdpt la duittol, sbb tugas aku ialah kidnap pengantin pempuan. Adoii..melepas aku nk mengepau.hahahaa

"Laki aku ni cukup ke x duit nak bayar tol ni" fikir Kak Sya dlm hati.

Aku kidnap Kak Yanie kejap sementare kutipan tol (Adat Johor) dilakukan~

Flower Girl dgn Kembar James Bond setie menanti pengantin

Aku dgn adik aku dukung Fasha Afrina & Deanna yg cute sangat2!

Aku berangan ade baby comel mcm Fasha Afrina~ Bile aku nak ade baby ni? hahaha

Family aku amek gamba dgn Abg Boy & Kak Sha..

Timmy yang mogok boring buat muke monyok..ala..cian die..

Family besar aku yg happening serbe purple...rindulah kat korang!

Majlis abes tepat kul 5. Mmg best la sbb dpt gather ramai2 dgn cousin. Peluang cenggini mmg jarang dapat. Mlm tu kitorg tgk balik video n gamba2 mmg gelak besar r. Abg Boy aku mmg sempoi r. Siap kipas diri sendiri sbb pengapit die hilang. Hahaha. Lepas ni turn sape lah pulak ek? =p

The Envious Sheryl

suddenly a strange feeling pop out again.

"i envy the ones who get a beautiful attention.

i envy the ones whose presence is appreciated.

i envy the ones whose absence is being sensed.

i envy the ones who doesn't even have to contemplate whether he/she is loved.

i am reaally envious right now"

i may sound that i'm too greedy. i'm not by the way. it just what i need. what i really really need.

Skuad Myvi Bapak Bella on Tour!

Last few days, when we were waiting for the next "torture" to take place, the girls went to rock a bit at the island. the stated purpose (as been told to belle's bapak n mama) was to accompany belle during their absence. chewaah..kunun2 we all baik la nak teman belle jage rumah, tolong bibik sapu2 sampah n everything lor. the hidden agenda were to jalan2 lah plus tengok AF n OIAM lah! first arrived, gaye ayu2 lagilah. salam belle's mun n tok,then the nice bibik served us with very cold and nice juice. tibe2, belle's adorable brother yg diminati oleh cik aida rudaini balek. then, kelam kabutlah cik rudaini. sehingge tertumpah air oren di atas meje.hehehe.mungkin kerane terpesone dgn lirikan mate abg belle kot.=p enough for that. karang abes rambot aku tercabut cik rudaini tarik.*giggling* that nite, kami berempat tido dgn lights on, sbb sume org xsedar ble tetido. when there was no rules, the girls applied their rules. we woke up late, bangun2 teros brekfast nasik goreng hasil masakan bibik. sbb korum xcukup lagik, baru 4 orang je jelitawan yg hadir iaitu aku, belle bipasha basu, aida rudaini n cik mayzlene marjerin, kami pon dok bincang r n g ronda kat mane aritu. bincang punye bincang, we came to a conclusion for visiting penang hill (since aku n cik rudaini yg kesian xpenah pegi lagik), botanical garden n toy museum lah! driver xbebayar pon menjlnkan tugas. mule2 ingt nak tunjuk pro r nak bawak kete manual, last2 aku give up sbb aku xbese dgn clutch kete tu.akhirnye, myvi automatik milik bapak belle juge jadik pilihan aku.hahaha.tp mmg grateful sgtla dpt bwk kerete auto, penang banyak sgt kerete, salu jammed, kalo aku dok ronde2 bwk manual ble tercabut kot kaki asek tuka2 gear jek.

cik sheryl ketue chef, cik belle basu,cik aida rudaini n cik mazylene marjerin

drebar xberbayar memandu dgn selamat

so skrg 1st kitorng nk g penang hill. mmg mase g penang hill tu, on the way,cik belle basu, cik rudaini n cik mazylene marjerin lah jd mate aku. seyes aku xtau jln. yang peliknye, belle yg da 21 thn dok penang pon xtaw jln! hehehe. so kitorg sume ibarat pelancong negeri len r.mase g tuh mmg asek tgk sign board jelah. aku doa dlm hati, jgnlah kitorg sesat sampai kt afrika. karang kanibal jumpe kitorg, abes kitorg kene makan! back to the story, sblm journey tu lg, belle da asek call cik mesaa@fuza tanye jln. mule2 kunun2 nk tanye abg belle lah, tp sbb kitorg bgn lambat, abg belle pon da kua.*padan muke bgn lambat lagik*. mengikut nasihat cik fuza, kitorg xkan sesat ke penang hill sbb mmg byk signboard g sane. mmg tepat skali lah advice cik fuza.kitorg mmg xsesat g penang hill. tp sampai2 je, parking xde.penuh sgt kete n bas. yelah. labour day kan. pastu aku pusing2 kat umah org, hentam je parking kat situ.turun2 jek, nampak polis tgh saman kete org len kt tepi2 jln. cuak aku. aku teros g kat polis tu. yelah takot kene saman.kang jenuh la plak aku kene baya saman. "tumpang tanye pakcik, kami dok parking kete kt kwsn perumahan bwh tu.kene saman x?"
"kwsn perumahan xkene, asalkan xblock jln org len suda"
"oh, time kaseh na.." *lonjak2 dalam hati, xyah aku g cari parking len!*
pas2 mase tgh queue dgn cik belle basu nk beli tiket cable car, aku dgr la India dpn aku ckp
"at 3:30 only we can go up u know. all others had been sold out"
aku dgn belle dah pandang sesame sendirik r. skrg baru kol 12. xkan lah nk tunggu 3 jam kot kat situ. bincang punye bincang lagik, sampai turn kitorg, kitorg xdecide lagik. last2 xbeli. *ches penat je beratur!* aku n cik rudaini da bwat muke seposen sbb sedeh. kempunan aku and cik rudaini nk naek penang hill. utk menutup rase hampe, aku dgn yg len ameklah gamba kt signboard dpn cable car station tu jek.hehehehe.. agaknye cik belle basu n cik mazylene marjerin perasan kehampaan kitorg, dorang bincang2 lagik. akhirnye, idea twinkling2 pon terhasil. hasil drpd gelige otak cik belle basu n cik mazylene marjerin yg mcm batu cincin,dorang suggest kitorg beli tiket je dulu utk naik atas ptg2 sket, then barulah g jln2 tempat laen. yes! yes! dapat jugak aku naek atas.tp mase beli tiket utk naik kol 430, pakcik jual tiket tu cakap,
"turun jgn lewat2 sgt. kat atas tu byk pocong.karang kene gigit xtau."
waaaa! takotnye aku dgr. hrp2 la aku xjumpe pocong atas sane! pas2 kitorg decide nk g botanical garden dulu sementare tgu kol 430. mase g botanical garden nilah kitorg sesat. mmg xde signborad lgsg nk guide kitorg. cik belle basu, cik rudaini n cik marjerin lah bersusah payah bace map yg xberape nk lengkap kat pamplete yg dorang amek kt penang hill station. aku sampai pusing roundabout dpn penang hill tu 3 kali sbb xtau nk amek jln mane.mesti driver laen igt aku gile kot.hahaha.pas2 kitorg decide lalu ayer hitam.mmg sesatlah.aku benti dpn kwsn apartment suh cik mazylene marjerin n cik belle basu tanye uncle cine tu. cik marjerin kn bole speak kantonis, cik belle basu bole ckp loghat penang.kombinasi 2 jelitawan ni pasti membuahkan hasil utk mencari jln benar ke botanical garden. ms mule2 cik mazylene mmg kondifen gile sebot name2 jln. pas2 aku tanyelah, jln2 tu terletak kat mane. die blur ckp, aku xtau katne, aku cume tau name jln jek.hahahaha. hampeh sungguh. tpakse la kitorg pusing lagi 20 kali, xjumpe2 jugak jln kebenaran. last2 cik belle basu cdgkan kitorg mule balek dr penang hill. aku pusing balek r g penang hill. cari mangse sape lg kitorg nk tanye. last2 aku tenampak ade sorang "ker ker" cine neh die baru je kua kete dpn umah die. aku teros g dpn umah die. spt bese, pembantu2 aku iaitu cik mazylene marjerin berserte cik rudaini yg da bersiap sedia dgn pen dan kertas(in case kene lukis map), turun utk tanye. dorang siap masuk kwsn dpn rumah lagik.hahaha.aku tgu dlm kete jelah. pas2 nampak lah "ker ker" neh. die tanye
"who's the driver?"
aii xkan xnampak aku kot tgh pgg stereng.
"i'm the driver. but i know nothing bout penang road". *aku jwb bahase omputeh jugaklah kan*
"y dun u juz follow me?"
kwn2 aku sume da bersorak girang,sbb kitorg tau kitorg xkan sesat lagik.hahaha
ha..nilah gbr "ker ker" bmw yg banyak berjase pd kitorg. tapik gbr kerete jelah ye.hehehe.



bukan nak ckp apelah, tp kami mmg puji la rakyat2 penang nih. "ker ker" nih punyelah baik nak tunjuk jalan, smpi ble aku terslah follow pon die bleh berenti tepi jln tgu aku wat u-turn. seyes baik. terime kasih la kapade "ker ker" WEK74 yg sudi tunjukkan kitorg jln ke botanical garden. then selamatlah sampai ke botanical garden. smpi2 perot da bergendang2 muzik zapin da sbb lapaq sgt. kitorg mknlah. aku dgn belle basu minum air kelape tau.hahaha.jakun!


cik rudaini n cik marjerin pinjam air kelape aku nak amek gamba..hehe


The kitorg masuk botanical garden. Xde keje laenlah. Bergamba sakan lah. Sampai ade satu grup bangla ni minat kat cik belle basu n cik mazylene marjerin or cik aida rudaini agaknye sebok dok ikot amek gbr kitorg.panas hati betol. Tula korang pakai lawa2 lagik.hahaha. then kitorg meneruskan perjlnan g toy museum. Mmg best sbb xsesat jalan. Konon2 da pro la.hahahha. tgk jela gamba neh. Mls nk tulis da. Panjang sgt da. Nantikan series seterusnye tour kitorg k?

P/s: balik tu kitorg sesat, xtaw nak balik umah Belle ikut jln mane, sampai kene tepon Cik Fuza.hehe.
Aduhai Cik Belle, Cik Belle! Rumah sendirik pon lupe jalan. *giggle*